The marriage institution is primarily based on partnership between two parties. Both husband and wife must know that marriage is a big responsibility and requires a large number of sacrifices from both parties. However, some men, for example, do not know the right way to deal with the wife and family. And what he did before marriage and must stop doing it after marriage, so through this article we will present the most important things that every married man should stop doing so read on with us
Habits should not be done by the husband
1 - to be a concern to concern the practice of hobbies
Most young people are fond of following football, whether local or international, as well as exercising and practicing other hobbies, but after a bitter marriage may change as it should be given a large part of his time to the wife and children and therefore the husband should not spend most of his time in the gym, He has to balance between his home and his work and the practice of his hobbies
2 - Search for and follow up sites and pornographic films
One of the worst qualities that any young man may describe as an addict who is an addict to watch pornographic films is not something that does not conform to social custom or Sharia. Therefore, we do not recommend couples to stop following these films and websites. We recommend every young man whether married or not. It stops because that is forbidden and even destroys human dignity
3. Not to wear the wedding band
The marriage is of great importance in our Eastern society because it indicates that you want to know the whole world that you are linked to a certain person and therefore the wife is very upset with the husband has taken off the marriage and therefore each husband must stop completely and keep away from taking off the bear but must be careful Before the wife to wear it
4 - devote all his time to work
Your wife and children have a great right to you. Therefore, it is not correct to spend your entire time working, traveling and other things forgetting that the wife, home and children really have it, so there must be a balanced and fair division of your time between work and parents will not bother you to work for the navel and its affairs It will negatively affect your marital life and your relationship with your children as well
5. Non-attention to the wife's speech
You should know that the wife is different from friends. A friend may speak to you and you do not give him any attention. This is normal, but when it comes to wife, she should be fully listened to, especially when discussing issues related to the family and the future of the family as well as children and their future. You talk to the husband and he does not listen boiled well and therefore dear husband and your wife is different from anyone else tried to give her talk always a measure of interest
6 - spend the weekend alone
The unmarried single man is accustomed to spend the weekend alone or with his friends, but the married man has to accept the idea that it is better to spend the weekly holiday with the wife and children whether inside or outside the house as well as all public and private occasions for a family to be the Lord Mohammed is at the head of any celebration or occasion and that exists between the wife and children so it is best to give up the idea of holidays and events alone or with your friends
7. Admiring women
Dear husband may be familiar since the days of celibacy to look at beautiful women without an account, but when you are married, you must know that this will not pass unnoticed, but the wife is jealous of her husband and therefore she likes to be the lady of his heart and eye so that he does not see women Otherwise, if you look at other beautiful women, it threatens the continuation and success of your marital relationship and therefore you should completely abandon this.
8 - not help in the work of the house
You may be familiar with your father and mother not doing any work at home, but when you get married and the wife is also a woman working outside the home, you should help her with housework and raising children because both of you are tired and exert all day effort outside the house It is not right to return home to rest and return to the wife to make an effort on the effort alone and so try as much as possible to be specific to your wife in the household and raising children is also an affair helps to increase the depth of the relationship and love between the spouses
9. Speak for long hours in the phone
It is wrong to take advantage of the time you spend with your family to talk on the phone for long periods of time. The time you spend with your wife and children is just their right and so try not to occupy yourself with other things whether it is related to work or other while you are with the family but try to create an atmosphere of fun And pleasure on the home when you are in it and therefore will increase the love of your wife and your children to be with them
A man in the pre-marital period has some different habits that may be difficult to give up after marriage in a quick time so try to help yourself to know that marriage is quite different from the pre-marriage period and return yourself to abandon some of the things you are used to To do so that she can live a happy and happy married life
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